In Korea, boyfriends buy their girlfriends plastic surgery. According to my teacher here at Sogang, it's a common
sunmul (gift) between loved ones and family. When applying for
jobs, Koreans are required to post a picture of themselves on the application, and especially with customer service positions, how beautiful your face is an important determining factor.
But what determines beauty?

In Korea the perceptions of a beautiful face for both men and women are bigger eyes, rounded foreheads, round skulls, taller noses, and tiny jaws. In other words, they want to look more 'white'. To me, the Westernization of Korea's beauty standards is a painful transition to witness. All this investment in surgery feels like they are cutting away the perfect, natural features of a Asian face. Blethoarphy is the most popular of the surgeries, where starting at $200, an scar is incisioned in the eyelid to form a bigger eye. Others popular procedures inject fat under the eyes for a puffy effect, or insert plates behind the skull for a more ovular head.
I asked my Korean sonbe (elder) about what he thought of plastic surgery. He told me that as a manager of Korea's grand opening for Taco Bell in Seoul, he wants to go under the knife so people feel happier working under a handsome boss. And to my shock, he bet that after five years of living in Korea, I too will desire plastics because my eyes are too small.
It's definitely uncomfortable to be judged so bluntly about the 'flaws' of my face. I grew up in New York surburbia where healthclass taught girls they should love the way they're born. But in Korea, all the women are beautiful and on TV they all look the same.
The pressures of physical presentation in Seoul is nothing I've ever experienced before. All theses advertisements in the fashion mags, these ubiquitous mirrors that loom in school hallways, subway stations, shopping malls, and elevators, it's making me so self conscious.
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